Gift or Loan — How Family Money Can Help You Buy a Home
If you’re a buyer on a tight budget, your family may be able or willing to help you with your downpayment. If that’s the case, lucky you! I know financial support from family is not an option for every buyer and I have many articles about other options on my website, but if you do fall into the category of getting downpayment money from your family, this is a useful guide. First thing to decide: should you or shouldn’t you accept their help? It’s help that many first-time buyers do welcome, especially if coming up with a down payment or qualifying for a lower interest rate is going to delay their dream of home ownership. If you have willing family members who have the finances or who may want to see you enjoy your inheritance now, then it’s worth the time to see if this is a viable financial option for you (and them). The big question is whether it will be a gift or a loan. These are two very distinct options and are handled differently from beginning to end. You and your family members will want to consult with experts on tax law and real estate law so that all the “i’s are dotted” and the IRS won’t be questioning this intrafamily agreement. It’s a Gift: $72,000 tax free! A gift is just that, a present with no strings attached. It’s not a loan at all or even considered income. And you do not have to pay back anyone. Ever. And, yep, you and your spouse could get up to $72,000 in one year. That could be a nice down payment. However, you and your parents or other family members still need to follow some guidelines to avoid any tax implications and still meet lender requirements. Of course, check with your own accountant to double check your specific tax implications, but a general rule of thumb is: Parents can each give up to $18,000 to a child and another $18,000 each to their child’s spouse per year without facing a gift tax. That’s a total of $36,000 per person or $72,000 total per year for a couple. If the gift is recent and is for the sole purpose of buying a home, a lender needs to see a signed agreement from parents stating that they have given their child a specific amount of money as a gift and don’t expect repayment. In this situation, a lender wants the buyer to prove the origin of this new lump sum of money, which is usually put toward a down payment. The lender needs to fully understand any borrower’s complete finances and any risks, and this letter assures them that you are under no obligation to pay back this gift. Parents or a family member can send the money directly to the settlement agent. That amount needs to match the amount stated in the letter. Many family members who lend money this way are happy to know that they are helping you buy a home and have some control over where the money is going. I’m not a licensed account, so be sure to check with yours about what the tax implications might be for you and your family. Early Inheritance If you and your parents are really organized, the tax-free gift giving can start earlier. With some preplanning, your parents can each gift you $18,000 per year over several years into an account in your name. Or double that if you’re married! In this situation, the gifted money can become more “seasoned” in your account, well before you even start looking for a home or begin working with a lender. It essentially becomes your money, and no lender letter is required down the road. However, the potential downside for your parents or other family members is that they now have no control on how you spend this money. It might not ever be used for a down payment on a home at all. It’s really up to you. But that’s a serious family discussion that you need have if you all decide to go this route. It’s important that everyone understands all of the potential scenarios to avoid any family regrets over this gifted money or early inheritance. Intrafamily Loan Rather than gifting money, a family member can lend you money to purchase a home. That means you do have an obligation to pay back this money. It’s a little more complicated to set up this family loan, but it can be a win-win for both sides: The benefit of an intrafamily loan is that you can get a lower interest rate than what’s currently available for a 30-year fixed rate mortgage loan. And, your parents can earn more money on the interest from this loan than if their money was in a CD at their local bank. See how it can be a pretty good financial transaction between you and your parents or between you and another family member? Keep in mind, there are certain strict requirements you and your family must abide by so you don’t face any gift tax or income tax penalties. You should meet with a real estate attorney to draw up loan documents and set up appropriate rates, payback requirements, etc. The interest rate your parents give you must meet the IRS’s applicable federal rate (AFR) for an “arms-length” transaction. It must be higher than the current AFR when you initiate your loan. So if you don’t qualify for the best rate from a bank, then maybe a family member could agree to lend you money at a lower rate to cover some of your mortgage or all of it. Plus, this loan won’t have fees, points, or mortgage insurance that can increase costs for you. And since this loan is considered a mortgage, you’ll still get to claim a mortgage rate deduction on your taxes. Another win for you! One of the benefits of this scenario is that your parents will earn some money from this intrafamily loan. This is especially good for those parents who can’t afford to gift money and still need money to live on. They will need to pay income taxes on this money earned, but they’d have to do that on a CD too. Email me with any questions about having family members help with financing your home purchase. Many buyers have done this before, and I can give you more guidance on family gifts and loans.
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"As Is" Home - Deal or No Deal?
In this 8-part series, How to Find the Perfect Home for You and Your Budget, you’ll learn how to find a home that is the right fit for your lifestyle, needs and, most importantly, your budget. It takes you through every single step and show you how to avoid buyer’s remorse. Your first home is most likely the stepping stone for your next home so you want to do it right and set yourself up financially to move up to your next home. For this last week, we examine what it means to deal with an “as is” home and if it’s something you should pursue. You’ve probably seen listings stating a home is being sold “as is.” Does that mean it’s a dump and not worth seeing? It can be hard to tell since there can be vast differences in the conditions of “as is” homes. These homes can sometimes be a good deal budget-wise, especially if it gets you into a neighborhood you’ve been eyeing. However, some “as is” homes come with more troublesome issues that could cost you more in the long run. If you do make an offer on such a home, you need to take certain steps to protect yourself. Here’s how: Understand What “As Is” Means Basically, “as is” means the buyer will purchase the home from the seller in its current condition no matter what since the seller has no intentions to do any repairs to the property before they sell it. The home could be in pristine condition or it could be a major “fixer upper.” Smoke detectors are the only thing legally that need to be working properly! Know What’s Expected from Sellers Every jurisdiction has different laws when it comes to “as is” homes, and every home and every seller has their own story. You’ll need to be more of a detective if you want a complete picture of an “as is” home. Understand disclosure requirements for different jurisdictions. Some states require sellers to disclose any defects they know about in a home for sale. Maryland and the District require sellers to provide detailed disclosure documents. Virginia, on the other hand, is more of a “buyer beware” state. If sellers, however, know of something but didn’t disclose it, that is considered fraud and the sellers would be liable. Sometimes it is difficult to prove if sellers really were aware of any defects or questionable conditions. That’s why it is important to get any disclosures in writing to protect you in the long run from fraudulent information. Be proactive and ask about any repair history. Did the seller have water damage at one time and made repairs, which now aren’t obvious to the buyer or the inspector? You want to know as much about this home as possible, especially any water damage history. Take cautious steps if seller is a nonoccupant. If the property was owned by someone who didn’t live in the home recently—whether it was a landlord who had been renting out the property, an estate selling for a deceased family member, or even a bank in a foreclosure sale, they can’t disclose something they didn’t know about. So be more vigilant since there could be more wrong with the property than what has been disclosed. How to Protect Yourself Take additional steps to ensure you understand the true condition of a home, both apparent and “hidden.” That way you’ll have a better idea of negotiating and budgeting for this home. Make sure you get a qualified inspector. If you included a home inspection contingency in your offer (which you always should), you are given a window of time to get the house inspected. You can get a thorough idea of the home’s condition. Does it have a leaky roof, any water damage, serious foundation issues, and pest or termite history? The results will help you decide whether you will continue with the transaction or not. You can walk away if you aren’t comfortable with buying the home. Get bids from contractors. If there are necessary repairs to be made, contact contractors during this contingency period to have a better idea of future costs. These estimates could help you at the negotiating table to bring down the price of the home. Take It, Or Leave It Overall, an “as is” home could be a good deal as long as you take the proper steps to protect yourself. It could be the “perfect” home for you as long as you do your due diligence on your part and have a very thorough inspection by a professional. You’ll also want to completely understand what you’re getting yourself into if it is a home that will need lots of work. Honestly ask yourself if you will have the time, the commitment, the patience, and the budget for undertaking any major repairs and making it more livable to your standards. But remember that you can “take it or leave it” and that’s the beauty of it. If you’re not comfortable, then you can always walk away if you’ve included the right contingencies in your offer with the seller. I hope you have enjoyed this How to Find the Perfect Home for You and Your Budget series. Here’s a recap and link to the previous articles: 12 Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Step Foot in an Open House Before you do anything else, you must evaluate you wants and needs for a home with some self-analysis. Are You a House or Location Person? Buyers tend to lean one way or the other, and by knowing this you can streamline your home search either way. The 3 Steps Most Buyers Skip When Buying a Home You don’t want to mess up one of the biggest financial decisions of your life so don’t forget to do these 3 things. The “Backwards” But Right Way to Finance Your First Home Our way of financing a home will lead you to the right home for your budget. How to Get Everything You Want in a Home Here’s how you can learn to balance your budget, location, and criteria so that you do get the “perfect” home for you. What YOU Need to Know About Buying for Schools Every first-time buyer needs to decide if “good schools” is on their criteria list, or not. Here’s how. If you are thinking about buying a home over the next few weeks, months or even a year or two from now, I’d love to help you find the perfect home for you and your budget. I want you to have everything you’ve ever wanted in a home and I’d love to help you find it without blowing your budget. Email me and let’s see what’s possible and how close we can get you to your own perfect home sweet home.
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What YOU Need to Know When Buying for Schools
In this 8-part series, How to Find the Perfect Home for You and Your Budget, you’ll learn how to find a home that is the right fit for your lifestyle, needs and, most importantly, your budget. We take you through every single step and show you how to avoid buyer’s remorse. Your first home is most likely the stepping stone for your next home so you want to do it right and set yourself up financially to move up to your next home. One piece of criteria you must think long and hard about is whether “good schools” should be part of your criteria for a home. For some first-time buyers it is, for others, it’s the first piece of criteria that should be thrown out. When to Throw Out “Good Schools” Criteria When should you NOT have schools be part of your search criteria? If you are a first-time home buyer and don’t plan to be living in your first home when your children are old enough to go to school, think twice about including it in your search criteria. For you, living in a “cool” part of town might be more important at this point in your life and that’s okay! Own it and enjoy every minute of that it while you are in that stage of life. For many of you, that sometimes means giving up space to be closer to things like work or nightlife in order to stay within budget. Taking that a little further into the future, if that means your first home is going to be too small to raise the family plan to have years from now, throw the “good schools” criteria out and get everything else you want. You have decided that you’ll move when it comes time to send kids to school … and that’s okay! Many first-time buyers do this and it makes their search so much easier so they can focus on a location without blowing the budget and not worry if they are buying into a “good” school district. And, when it comes time for resale, you’ll find similar buyers just like you who aren’t buying for schools. When To Keep Good Schools As A “Must Have” If you are going to be buying your “forever” home as a first-time buyer, then YES, you definitely want school boundaries to be in your search criteria. That way you aren’t forced to move out of your home because you didn’t think far enough into the future. This decision is CRUCIAL in your search for a first home. Pause and really think about it. How long do you plan on living in this next home? Does school-aged children fit into that timeframe? If you decide you are a homebuyer, first timer or not, who plans on living in your home when your kids are school aged, read on. We’ll tell you exactly how to think it all through and make the right decision. “Buying for Schools” Checklist Agents can’t give their opinion. Many clients are surprised that agents can’t offer any opinions on the quality of the schools or school districts because of fair housing laws. So don’t get frustrated when you ask about schools. Even if we were allowed to comment on schools, my opinion about schools may be different than yours, so it’s best for you to decide what makes a “good” school for your little ones. Spend time researching schools and school districts. There are some good online resources where you can start learning about schools — https://www.niche.com/, www.greatschools.org, and www.schooldigger.com are a couple such resources. Remember that online ratings don’t always show the complete picture about a particular school or school district, and you should seek out other feedback too. Talk to neighbors and friends, visit schools and meet with teachers and/or principals, and review test scores, graduation rates, and teacher-to-student ratios. Keep in mind that what you may deem as “good” may be slightly different from another family. Some families seek out smaller schools, more diverse schools, ones with more special services, more-community based, or are open to both public and/or private schools. You know what’s best for your kids and family. Spend time researching before you start house hunting. If schools are that important to you, don’t waste time house hunting without having done any research. Really get to know how the schools work in the general area you are considering. Our clients are often surprised that there are more options than they first thought. This can really be a game changer when it comes to your home-buying decision making and where you narrow down your search. Don’t forget to confirm school boundary lines. Always call the school administration yourself to find out what are the school boundaries and if your home’s location is within a certain parameter. You should verify this information since it’s not always obvious or could be listed incorrectly by the seller. It’s not unusual that the school closest to your home may not be your school. Boundary lines do change from time to time … so always double check! Know that boundaries can change. Keep in mind that whatever the boundaries are now, they can and likely will change over the years. As communities grow and change, school districts go back to the drawing board and alter school boundary lines as needed. Learn more about all of the school options available. It’s not always clear-cut when looking at public school districts about what is available for students outside your boundary line. Each district can have varying options and it’s worth your time to find out more information. There may be “special” schools your kids might be able to apply to and attend, such as magnet schools or charter schools. There could be “special choice” school zones that you didn’t know about initially that could change your entire housing search. Don’t rule out private or religious-based schools either and take the time to find out about costs, scholarships, and other requirements. Expect to pay a higher price tag for some school districts. Typically, a better school district means higher home prices (and possibly higher property taxes). So keep in mind the cost to move into a neighborhood with schools that have a good reputation. If you’re facing a higher price tag, then you may have to seek out other financing or adjust your criteria (i.e., living in smaller house or on a busy road). But, on the other hand, you’ll likely have an easier time selling this more expensive home when it’s time to move. You’ll have to decide if it’s worth the extra expense. Next week is the final article in the How to Find the Perfect Home for You and Your Budget series. If you’ve been thinking about buying a fixer upper just to get into a certain neighborhood, then “As Is” Home – Deal or No Deal is for you. Find out the pros and cons of buying a home where the seller plans to sell it just the way it is.
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How to Get Everything You Want in a Home
In this 8-part series, How to Find the Perfect Home for You and Your Budget, you’ll learn how to find a home that is the right fit for your lifestyle, needs and, most importantly, your budget. It takes you through every single step and shows you how to avoid buyer’s remorse. Your first home is most likely the stepping stone for your next home so you want to do it right and set yourself up financially to move up to your next home. So far in this series, you’ve decided on a monthly budget, narrowed down a location, and decided on your criteria for a new home … but you haven’t been able to go house hunting just yet! You may think that’s crazy, but it isn’t. It’s important to first figure out your answers to each of these three items before you start looking at homes or you could end up with the wrong home for you. The Backwards (But Right!) Way to Finance Your First Home; Are You a “House” or a “Location” Person?; and Questions to Answer Before You Step Foot in an Open House.) These three – budget, location, and criteria — are intertwined and play a key role in finding the “perfect” home for you. You can get everything you want in a home by understanding how these three items influence each other and need to balance each other out. Here’s your homework before you go house hunting: Know where you are with the specifics for each one of the three — budget, location, and criteria ; and Know how each one can affect or influence the others in your search for a home. (This is very important!) How each is linked is essential when looking for a home that is affordable, meets your needs, and will satisfy most of your wants. Confused? Here are more details on this process below. The 3 Buckets – Budget, Location, and Criteria When you’re asked to “get in alignment” at this point in the home-buying process, it’s based on an analogy of 3 buckets. Each and every factor that you can think of when you are buying a home fits into one of these 3 buckets: 1.) Budget 2.) Location 3.) Criteria (The first two are obvious but for “criteria”, it’s things like how big, how many bedrooms, how long you plan to live there, condition, etc. Aspects about the home itself you require.) Each bucket doesn’t have to be equal in “weight” but the total weight combined of the 3 buckets must be aligned or balance the scale they sit on … that is your ultimate goal. Put simply, these three categories—budget, location and criteria—need to be in alignment in order for you to find the right home, in the right location, and be within your budget. Fill Your 3 Buckets in the Right Order First and foremost, you must understand what you are putting in each bucket and make sure you use this order: budget, location, criteria. That way you’ll be able to house hunt with a plan and a purpose! This order is crucial and that’s why you should first figure out your budget bucket for a new home. Now it’s your turn — BEGIN with what you want to pay per month, THEN know how much cash you have for the purchase, and THEN bring that information to your real estate agent and lender to have them tell you what your price range should be. NOT the other way around, which is what most people do — they decide on a purchase price first and then figure out what that means per month. Doing it that way is a recipe for getting a home that’s too expensive or not something you’ll like. It’s understandable if you’ll push back on this, but trust this process! It will take you where you want to be in living your best homeowner life! Of all the buckets, it’s important to get this one figured out before you start looking for a home. And then don’t change it until you’ve exhausted adjusting your location and criteria first before deciding to alter your budget. Next, focus on the location bucket. Where do you want to live, and why? What characteristics of that location are important to you? For example, if you love walkability and an easy commute by bike every day, there are plenty of neighborhoods that fit that particular need, even if it’s not the one you originally had in mind. If you’re more of a “house person,” then you can be a bit more flexible with your location since you’re more interested in a home’s aesthetics. Third, focus on the criteria bucket. What do you really need in a home? How long do you plan on living there? What do you want your life to be like during that time period and how will your new home influence this life? Remember, you should have gone through each of these and “filled” each bucket up. Alignment = The Perfect Home for You and Your Budget Next, you need to make sure that there is alignment between each of the three buckets so they don’t spill over into “no-house land.” For example—if you won’t compromise on location and can’t change your budget, then you must focus on the “criteria” bucket. That means, you might want to consider a fixer upper or a two bedroom plus a basement instead of three bedrooms on the same level. That way you can still have the location and budget that you want most. Can you see how you need to make adjustments and that each “bucket” influences the others? Approaching your home search in this very organized and methodical way may sound silly or boring, but it works. It’s absolutely normal to have this give and take, and you’ll be in your new “home sweet home” in no time! Still Feeling Frustrated? If you ever feel like giving up or are frustrated by the entire home-buying process, don’t forget to think about your home search in this way … three buckets that need to be aligned or balanced on a scale. Still feeling stuck? Ask yourself what you can let go of. Do you really have to have every single thing on your list in this first home? And, if you are still running into trouble, ask yourself how long you’ll be living in this first home. That can add some clarity to what you put in each bucket. For example, it will help define what you really need in this first home in terms of criteria and location, and what can wait for when it’s time to move on up to the next home. Knowing the timeline of how long you want to live in your first home can often help you decide whether or not schools are a factor. That’s a topic that will be covered next week. Stay tuned! You’ve learned how to put it all together by aligning three very important “buckets.” Now you can start house hunting for a home that is perfect for you and for your budget. We’re not done yet with this series though. Next up, What YOU Need to Know When Buying for Schools — this is something every buyer should take into account whether they have kids or not!
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